Is hunger awful?
Is hunger awful?
Disgruntled dieters like to say they're tired of hunger. But that was the gnawing, empty, deprived hunger arising from a life of restriction and disgusting bland food. It's what you're running away from, right?
As you learn to eat normally, with balanced meals and intuition, you may find to your pleasant surprise that getting good and hungry before chowing down feels really good.
Actually, getting hungry is a normal part of the hunger and fullness cycle, and is what allows food to taste so good.
But dieters seem to get hooked on either never being hungry, filling up constantly on fat-free pretzels or diet soda, or getting overly hungry as a means to lose weight.
If you believe in one of the two methods, it will be hard for you to learn normal eating. Why?
We are meant to get hungry and then respond to the hunger by eating. Barring any special medical conditions, getting hungry is perfectly safe and normal. Not only that, you can embrace it.
Hunger is a good thing. Hunger means that the food will taste good. Have you ever noticed that food tastes better when you're good and hungry?
Interestingly, if you stick with the hunger and fullness method, it means you're committed to eating only delicious food. Diet food will never satisfy again.
As a normal eater, you will run into a new problem. On the occasion when you're late for your plane and stuck eating airline food, you may have no choice but to eat something less than desirable. Be prepared to feel disappointed, right up until the next meal.
Given all the pain you've caused yourself by dieting, and knowing that as a normal eater you will be occasionally disappointed, ask yourself which is better.
Just remember that once you're hungry, you don't have to stay that way. Once you have a stomach growl, or whatever is your personal hunger sign, go ahead and eat at the next convenient time.
It's better in most cases to go ahead and eat if your schedule allows, because staying hungry for too long can cause headaches and that tired old feeling of deprivation.
But if you have to wait a little longer, that's okay too. You can tolerate it. The stress caused by a little hunger is tolerable.
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