Granular thinking: April 2008 Archives
Okay so you totally messed things up. You over ate, and then got so upset about it that you ate some more. Finally you were in so much pain that you had to lie down. And strange things happened to your body that cannot be discussed delicately here.
I found you out? This behavior may be more common than you think. You are not alone! You may as well admit your secret to someone because, as they say, "You're only as sick as your secrets." But of course, find only a safe person to tell.
One key to recovery from binge eating is to stop thinking in black and white. Simple, yet difficult. It's time to allow yourself the luxury of stopping arbitrarily, right in the middle of the binge. If you can do that, you can recover.
Each time a binge starts, decide to stop arbitrarily. Celebrate every time you do that. Each time, you'll be able to stop earlier and earlier because you'll feel so good about achieving "arbitrariness."
Remember, the disorder won't go away overnight. But if you keep thinking in "shades of gray," rather than "black and white," if you discard notions of having to stop at midnight, or only when you're in pain, or only when all the ice cream's gone, if you can achieve "arbitrariness," then you will eventually be able to stop before it starts. And that's as good as it gets.
But that sounds pretty good to me.
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